Tantra Tales
Frances is 54 years old, 5′2″ with gray hair, and admittedly twenty pounds overweight. In one tantra workshop she sat next to Octavio, a 21 year old, 6′4″ Brazilian man whose stunning looks turn women’s heads. When asked to energetically find someone to pair up with for the next exercises, they turned to each other and ended up doing an emotional release process together. From that time on, Frances curled up into Octavio’s arms during the rest of the workshop. “She’s beautiful,” Octavio told me. “She’s certainly not my typical type-I date tall, stunning, Spanish looking models. But I need to be with a real woman here who is kind and who can help me grow.” Over 50 Pauline, a fiery, outgoing Italian woman, met 26 year old Lee, a quiet guy of few words. Pauline was well into her career and owned a house; Lee was still in school and lived at home. But Pauline fell for him; as she explained, “He was kind and faithful and I could count on him for everything. He would always come when I needed him. He set up my computer. He listened to all my worries. Best of all, he learned all the tantric sex practices with me.” They were inseparable for several years, but even Pauline herself knew that it was not forever. “I had been hurt so often by so many men and Lee was safe. Being with him taught me how to trust again.” Pauline’s new boyfriend is her own age. “Lee was my training for love,” she explains. “Often there are relationships that prepare us for the next true love.”Part 5 ? Dating and Mating Tantra Style Quiz: Are You Ready for Your True Tantric Sex Partner? Answer the following questions about what qualities your tantric partner might possess. Add more questions, if you like.
